Shortly after beginning the first
conversation, where only one was permitted to speak, it quickly became apparent
how difficult this was going to be. It was difficult to start a conversation
that we were able to go into depth with. The questions and answers between us
had to stay pretty basic in order for us to understand each other. Even then,
the conversation was hard to carry on with.
For this experiment, my partner was
in control of the conversation. I decided to be the one to try and not speak.
Since I couldn’t say anything, there was really no way for me to ask her
questions without her getting confused as to what I was trying to say. Most of
the conversation consisted of her asking the questions and changing the topics,
while I attempted to answer the questions. If I compared this conversation to a
balance of power, my partner definitely had the power in this conversation.
If my partner and I were to be
compared to two different cultures, she would be the one who would have the advantage
of communicating complex ideas. Even though my culture may understand body
language with each other, it is not enough to relay complex information to each
other. Unfortunately, the culture who has the advantage of using language to
communicate will most likely feel superior to the culture who cannot. This can
be seen between the interaction of human and wild animals. As humans, we
communicate with language while wild animals communicate in their own way that
humans do not fully understand. Many humans feel as though they are superior to
animals because of our ability to intellectually communicate with each other.
The second conversation was definitely
easier, but was still difficult in some ways. I always talk with my hands, so
it was extremely difficult to prevent myself from doing that. This time, we
could have a slightly more in depth conversation, but due to the lack of
emotion it was difficult for us to talk about things that involved feelings or opinion.
Afterwards, we both compared the conversation to text messaging. There is no
feeling and just using words without feeling can easily cause confusion.
This experiment shows that the use
of signs in language is extremely important. Just using words alone isn’t enough. When receiving
the information from a person’s body language when conversing, the feelings
about the conversation become apparent. We can tell if one really wants to be
having the conversation or not. It also gives us insight to what their opinions
are on the matters being discussed.
Being able to read a person’s body
language can help us survive in certain situations. It allows us to tell if the
person we are with are willing to help us if we are in need or not. By reading
body language we get a real sense of their feelings toward us rather than just
relying on what they say. This also becomes apparent when reproduction comes
into play. When dating, body language is a huge factor when determining if
someone is into you or just wants the date to end.
I am sure there are people who have
a hard time reading body language, however it is difficult to identify them. I
cannot think of a situation when reading body language is not important. I feel
as though it is important in every situation. It even allows us to tell if
someone is lying or telling the truth. The only situation in which reading body
language isn’t available is when we are talking on the phone. However, I don’t necessarily
think this makes it unimportant.









